Bad News Personal choices can have a far reaching effect on people that we just cannot comprehend. While the following information would be best discussed in a different forum, this very personal news is shared here only to point out that my past few weeks started on a less than stellar note. Two weeks ago, I got a call from a family member that my sister was in the hospital and would most likely not go home. Turns out that though she has been getting treatment for multiple myeloma, a specific form of leukemia, for 3 years she has known about the disease for 6. I and my siblings found out this info only last Tuesday. Of course I got on a plane the next day on the first flight out of Hilo and stayed the next week. She stabilized and seemed to be doing well enough that she went home. Most of my other siblings including me (we are 5 strong), started to head home one by one. That was bad news #1 JoAnn met me at the airport and on the way home she mentioned that the turkeys all